May contain Nuts

One of my favourite Mike Leigh films, apart from 'Bleak Moments' is this one, called 'Nuts in May' produced by the BBC in 1975. It's pure tortured genius. This is a great clip. It's a humorous illustration of how some people impress their "interests" on others. It simply does not register with them, that they may be 'ram-raiding' another's personal boundaries. 

I believe there are many fledgling sociopaths out there, with "good intentions". However, in not adopting their current views on life, they will pummel you until you "Agree". People DO need guidance in life, and we need bible based teaching. God's word is absolute!. Regarding the making of disciples, down the road this process should lead to mutual respect. If a good relationship with Jesus Christ and understanding of the bible is in place, one would hope they can inquire of The Lord when others are not around. If not, what happens if the shepherd is struck? Will they be "grown up" enough the continue with their walk in The Lord?

Allowing people to exercise their God given (!) free-will equips people, in all conscience, to truly make decisions. This builds a healthy sense of personal responsibility, something that goes out of the window if they are being controlled or smothered (however well intentioned). 

Ephesians 4:11-13 says "And He Himself gave some to be apostles, some prophets, some evangelists, and some pastors and teachers, for the equipping of the saints for the work of ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ, till we all come to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a perfect man, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ;"  (NKJV) - emphasis mine.

Our opinions change with new revelation and instruction... we need to allow for this in ourselves and in others. i.e. Last year, I was right!!!, this year, oh, I've have an epiphany and I was wrong about that... (but last year "I was right" and I blumm'in let you all know it) We need to stay teachable... humility requires it! The only things in all creation that are reliable and true forever, are The Lord and His Word. 

Mike Leigh's films, tend to distill the awkwardness of when people (with their backstories) are thrown together. Navigating relationship with love, respect and balanced assertiveness is a process we should never hide from. 

Peter 3:15 says  "But in your hearts set Christ apart as holy [and acknowledge Him] as Lord. Always be ready to give a logical defense to anyone who asks you to account for the hope that is in you, but do it courteously and respectfully". (amplified version) - emphasis mine.

The truth spoken in love? ...yep and amen!

David